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		<title>Carsmos</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Feb 2013 22:04:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Often seen around Austin, Carsmos is the latest of Lois&#8217; Art Cars&#8211; a mobile example of her artwork!]]></description>
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		<title>Psyched</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Feb 2013 22:03:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Peaches</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Feb 2013 22:02:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Mic Luv Bug</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Feb 2013 21:58:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>About Lois</title>
		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/homepage/about-lois-3/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Dec 2012 00:39:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lois is an Austin Texas intuitive consultant and teacher. Lois started her intuitive work in 1990 by practicing on anyone and everyone she could find. Her professional career began in January of 1994. Soon after, in 1995, she started teaching intuition classes. Lois has a different delivery than most other intuitive consultants in that she ... ]]></description>
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		<title>Classes</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Dec 2012 17:15:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Intuition Class ~ Dating &#38; Relationships ~ Women’s Relationship Support]]></description>
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		<title>The Mermaid Gate</title>
		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/art/the-mermaid-gate/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Dec 2012 17:04:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This mermaid gate is one of Lois&#8217; artistic endeavors and leads back to the area where she does consultations. Lois&#8217; house &#38; environment reflect her unique sensibilities, her artistic spirit and love of color.]]></description>
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		<title>Interview About Carsmos</title>
		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/art/336/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Dec 2012 05:59:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A German documentarian discusses Lois&#8217; automotive creation, Carsmos.]]></description>
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		<title>Testimonials</title>
		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/testimonials/testimonials-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Nov 2012 18:14:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;For the last ten years, Lois has been one of the most influential people in my life.  Her consultations are honest, insightful, and very accurate.  She has guided me through several important career and personal decisions and has helped me to discover what I need in my life to be truly happy.&#8221;  -Dave ~~~~~ &#8220;Lois ... ]]></description>
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		<title>Consultations</title>
		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/consultations/consultation-types/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Nov 2012 18:03:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Intuitive Consultations The focus of a session with Lois is on present time issues. She will deliver the information that she receives in a conversational style that matches the individual needs of the client. She will help the client process the information and won’t move on to a new subject matter until she is certain ... ]]></description>
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		<title>Testimonials</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Nov 2012 18:02:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;I have consulted with Lois on important investment deals for many years. She has also advised me on how to best handle various personalities, including my own business partners, in business negotiations. I have always found the information she provided to be invaluable.&#8221; &#8211; Bill, Investor ~~~~~ &#8220;I wanted to buy and bed and breakfast ... ]]></description>
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		<title>What is Intuition?</title>
		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/intuition/what-is-intuition/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Nov 2012 17:57:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Intuition is often defined as &#8220;knowing without regard to reason.&#8221; In other words, intuition is knowing the truth about something based on how you feel, not on what you think.   Oprah defines intuition this way: &#8220;If you let it, the noise of the world will drown out the voice of God, which is your intuition. ... ]]></description>
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		<title>What is an Intuitive?</title>
		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/intuition/what-is-an-intuitive/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Nov 2012 17:56:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Everyone has intuition; an Intuitive has simply developed his or her intuition to a greater degree than most people. Trusting his or her intuition allows the Intuitive to give unbiased answers to challenging questions and frequently provides a different viewpoint or an option not previously considered. If you go to an intuitive and you feel ... ]]></description>
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		<title>When Should You Consult an Intuitive?</title>
		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/intuition/when-should-you-consult-an-intuitive/</link>
		<comments>http://www.ask-lois.com/intuition/when-should-you-consult-an-intuitive/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Nov 2012 17:55:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A good time to consult an intuitive is when one reaches a crossroads in life. Most people get overwhelmed when confronted with too many options. Usually the next course of action is to start overthinking; then a cycle occurs in the mind, followed by confusion. The confusion often leads to fear which facilitates worry about ... ]]></description>
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		<title>Some Common Stumbling Blocks</title>
		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/intuition/some-common-stumbling-blocks-to-accessing-the-truth/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Nov 2012 17:53:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The most common stumbling block to accessing your intuitive truth is allowing the moment of knowing to pass and moving into intellect. No real truth can be found through thought, and asking the wrong question or phrasing the question incorrectly will always lead to the wrong answer. When one has a strong emotional attachment to ... ]]></description>
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		<title>Hope42Day interviews Lois</title>
		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/interviews/hope42day-interviews-lois/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Nov 2012 17:35:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[November 7, 2012: Lynn Kindler of Hope42Day interviews Ambassadors of Hope from across the globe who are up to good things in the world. Click here to see the full article! Lois is an Austin Texas intuitive consultant and teacher. Lois started her intuitive work in 1990 by practicing on everyone she could find. Her ... ]]></description>
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		<title>MyFoxAustin: Dangers of Relationships and Texting</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Nov 2012 17:42:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[May 17, 2011: Lois Goodman, of ask-lois.com , stopped by Good Day to talk about the dangers of texting and relationships. Lois says texting is dangerous in relationships because it could be misunderstood due to a lack in tone. It&#8217;s also considered a way to avoid deep emotional intimacy. Listen to Lois&#8217; interview:]]></description>
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		<title>What Lois Does</title>
		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/homepage/what-lois-does/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Nov 2012 17:31:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Phone Consultations (For people around the globe) Individual In-Person Consultations (Austin area) Couples Consultations Fifteen Minute Phone Consultations (For quick answers to acute issues) Intuition classes Relationship / Dating Workshops Relationship support groups for women]]></description>
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		<title>The Most-asked Question Ever</title>
		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/homepage/most-asked-question-ever-the-error-of-omission/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Nov 2012 20:23:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<strong>The Error of Omission</strong><br /><br />The issue is deep. It is certainly not conscious nor is the behavior that follows. The act itself is breaking an agreement. Beyond that, it goes against personal beliefs of both partners. I am assuming here that agreements are made based on mutual beliefs. When one goes against their own personal agreements and beliefs, it seems impossible that guilt (or at least some discomfort) wouldn’t follow.<br /><br />

Here is the worst part. If one doesn’t tell, it becomes the second act of betrayal. Now you have the act of omission. Continuing on, every time the partner has the potential of finding out the truth, the act of omission happens again.]]></description>
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		<title>Untitled</title>
		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/183/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 21:58:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I&#8217;m a single 30 year old. I met a girl a while back who I completely adored immediately. We have the same interests and background and great chemistry. When I met her, she had a live-in boyfriend, but they were already on the verge of breaking up, so I pursued her and told her ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/185/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 21:57:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I fell in love with a woman almost a year ago. I moved away and she said she would wait for me to come back. As time went on, she appeared to be more emotionally distant and started getting closer to someone else. She says she is not seeing him, but she has lied ... ]]></description>
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		<title>Untitled</title>
		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/239/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 21:30:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. After five years of marriage, my husband had an affair. He says he is sorry and wants to make our marriage work. He has broken it off with the other woman. She lives in another state but she does work for the same company. He told me it was an emotional affair that turned ... ]]></description>
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		<title>Untitled</title>
		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/210/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 21:29:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I have been dating the same guy for almost 5 years. We are both graduating and about to make changes that might force us to have a long distance relationship. He is ready to get married and talks about it often. I never doubted he was the person I wanted to marry I just ... ]]></description>
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		<title>Untitled</title>
		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/209/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 21:28:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I have been dating a guy for 11 months. We just had a baby. I was exposed to HSV 2 (Herpes) over 12 years ago. I never told my boyfriend but he found out when the Dr. questioned me about it before delivery. I really love him and want to spend my life with ... ]]></description>
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		<title>Untitled</title>
		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/208/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 21:28:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I am 21 and my boyfriend is 31. Lately we have getting in disagreements over the age difference. We have a great relationship; we communicate &#038; have extremely similar ideas on what we want from the relationship. I understand relationships are not always easy but at times he feels that we are in different ... ]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 21:27:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. My partner and I are expecting a baby. He is very worried that having this baby will negatively impact our life. His fear also comes from him having a less than stellar home life with his family while growing up. He realizes this isn&#8217;t rational but can&#8217;t seem to move beyond his worry despite ... ]]></description>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. Is it understandable to have doubts about a committed relationship after finding out that your partner secretly watches porn? A. Yes. Not because your partner watches porno but because your partner kept a secret, any secret. Your partner should be comfortable enough to share anything with you. A secret would bring into question if ... ]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 21:26:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I recently reconnected with someone I dated for a brief period of time 10 years ago. We went out again last night. It was great. I felt comfortable and safe. My concern is that his wife killed herself (about 4 years ago). He is now raising their son. He seems to be doing well ... ]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 21:26:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I am a 52 y/o female living with a 43 y/o man for over 3 years. Jack is Normally very reserved, very intelligent, but conversation is short and to the point. I am bubbly and outgoing. I am concerned because he has never said that he loves me. When I tell him I love ... ]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 21:25:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. What was the purpose in mine and a guy I know from high school paths crossing at least 5 times in different states while I was traveling? A. You are obviously not done with your relationship. In some way you need to stay connected. Doesn&#8217;t mean, your destiny has some kind of romantic end. ... ]]></description>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I am 22, have been in a relationship with a 44 year old woman for 4 years who is in a different status. I have more education, and we view life very differently. Worse I thought I was gay, but I am not. I have wanted to get out of the relationship for the ... ]]></description>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. My husband and I have been married for 4 years. It has never been easy but the last year has been really rough. When he upsets me, I find I respond in ways that make me not like myself very much. I recently found out that he was having an emotional relationship with someone ... ]]></description>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I have been married for eight years. My mother-in-law lives in another city about 100 miles away. I have done everything that I can to please her but she has always judged me. She went to dinner with my mother last time she was in town and said bad things about me through the ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/199/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 21:21:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I have been dating someone for three years. I am crazy about him and am ready to move the relationship forward. I approached my boyfriend about it. He said &#8220;I love you but I am happy with what we have now.&#8221; I know he loves me but I think he doesn&#8217;t really know what ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/198/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 21:21:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. This is a co-worker/friend relationship question: There are several people at work whom I consider to be friends. We eat lunch together, hang out together during breaks and have gone out after work. Last week I overheard some of these folks talking about going to a place we&#8217;ve all been to on Friday. Nothing ... ]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 21:21:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I just started dating an old friend a few months ago. He and I feel very comfortable together and that is really great. I have been traveling and just got home and he seems ambivalent towards me. He is talking of wanting to change his life and may move away. He did mention he ... ]]></description>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I have been in a relationship for 2 years with this man (he is 30 and I am 28). We have been living together for over 9 months now. I am so happy with the growth and development of the relationship except in one area&#8230;.his anger. He will go off on me in fits ... ]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 21:20:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I got a divorce, but on a stupid moment of loneliness I let my ex-husband come back home. He is a total loser. I can&#8217;t believe I had so much hope on him for so many years. We have a son and what finally made me go to court and file is that I ... ]]></description>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. My husband and I have been together for 20+ years. He recently informed me that he is thinking about moving out. He says we have moved away from each other. I think having different interests keeps things interesting, but I am still involved with some of his interests. I think he&#8217;s having a midlife ... ]]></description>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I have been in a relationship with my current beau for over a year. We have faced a few obstacles, but with some patience and dedication, we have worked our way through many of them. The problem is that I have a real trust issue and he has betrayed my trust a few times. ... ]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 21:19:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I have been a relationship for a year and I am not happy. We moved from another city because of my job and we just signed a year&#8217;s lease. I see how wonderful he could be and I think he has a beautiful soul, but he doesn&#8217;t really want to work or even support ... ]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 21:19:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I have been living with my boyfriend for about a year. Even before he moved in, he informed me that he didn&#8217;t clean. I agreed that I would do all of the cleaning. At first, I didn&#8217;t mind doing it, but now I am really becoming resentful about having to clean the whole house ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/189/</link>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I&#8217;ve noticed that I feel less fulfilled by my friendships lately. Everyone seems so busy that it is hard to spend quality time together. Instead, we end up having a rushed lunch or happy hour together. What&#8217;s a busy girl to do? How can I put the depth back into the relationships that I ... ]]></description>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. My friend has just started dating a man. They are both in their 50s. When they are out in public, he frequently makes suggestive comments about other women, especially about much younger women. For instance, he&#8217;ll spot a young girl and say something like, &#8220;Oh, to be 19 again.&#8221; My friend and I both ... ]]></description>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. Why is it that I can never seem to find a relationship where things are equal??? I mean, either I find someone who&#8217;s too available and doesn&#8217;t challenge me and I get bored, or I find someone who is unavailable and I have to chase!! What&#8217;s up with that? I&#8217;m getting tired of all ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/186/</link>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I was married for 11 years, and have been divorced for almost two. I finally feel strong and like &#8220;I&#8221; am enough. Recently I have become reacquainted with the best friend of my first love. I am very happy to have him and his wife in my life. The problem is, that I am ... ]]></description>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I am 30 years old and have been with my partner for ten years. Our history includes cheating, breaking up for a year, getting back together, serious trust issues, and some emotional disconnection. The sex has never really been there and we are not attracted to each other. We don&#8217;t communicate very well and ... ]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 20:37:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. What guidance can you offer for someone who wants to be married but can&#8217;t seem to even get a date? I&#8217;m 54 and I haven&#8217;t been on a date in 15 years. Friends say I&#8217;m attractive, intelligent and fun, but it has been near impossible to even find single, eligible men near my decade, ... ]]></description>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I have a male friend of 10 years. We tried romance and it didn&#8217;t work because he only wanted me when I was unavailable. When I called his bluff, he backed far away. He now wants to be friends, but really doesn&#8217;t even know how to do that. His form of communication is sending ... ]]></description>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I was married for 20 years and now back on the dating scene. I don&#8217;t know &#8220;the rules&#8221;. I assume there must be rules. There has to be, it&#8217;s just too confusing. Honestly, I don&#8217;t know who pays, who calls, who decides, who does anything. I think it&#8217;s overwhelming. Do you have any advice? ... ]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 20:36:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I recently started hanging out with a guy. We have not talked about being exclusive. A few weeks ago I was out and kissed another guy but it meant nothing. Should I tell the guy I&#8217;ve been hanging out with? A. Since it concerns you so much it&#8217;s definitely time to have the &#8220;talk&#8221;. ... ]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 20:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I went to dinner with my boyfriend (we have been together for over a year), my sister, and a cousin. My boyfriend suggested we bring my mom so we did. We went to an inexpensive restaurant but ended up ordering a $70 bottle of wine (by mistake). We all put in our credit cards ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/150/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 20:35:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I am involved with a younger man. The relationship is great; we have a very solid connection and communicate well. Age seems to be a fairly minor issue, though it does crop up occasionally, mostly having to do with him having a little less life experience than I do. But I can&#8217;t seem to ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/149/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 20:35:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I found 2 men that I was interested in immediately. I asked them out. One man met me once for coffee. When I went to meet him again, I didn&#8217;t recognize him and went up to another guy instead (very embarrassing). Another man also met me for coffee. Neither man has responded to my ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/148/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 20:34:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. Just a few weeks ago I joined a website where you can put up a profile, catch up with old friends, and meet new ones. A guy that I had dated briefly while traveling a year and half ago just contacted me. We had a brief exchange and asked each other where the other ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/147/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 20:34:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I find I am attracted to a woman I employ. I want to invite her to a concert with me, but there are two issues. I have a girlfriend and I am her boss. What should I do? I don&#8217;t want to lose my girlfriend right now if this doesn&#8217;t work out and I ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/145/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 20:34:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. What is it with me? I&#8217;m 33, a successful woman with a master&#8217;s degree, and I keep choosing loser men. I&#8217;ve got this attraction to bad boys, and it&#8217;s ruining me as a person. Every other aspect of my life is well organized and idyllic, but I&#8217;ve got this powerful attraction to guys that ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/144/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 20:34:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I have always looked for older men, but now find myself in love with a man a ten years my junior. I have not been happier. I wonder, though, if he will get bored and look for a younger woman in a few years. Am I the only older woman who thinks this? A. ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/143/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 20:33:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. My boyfriend and I are in love with each other and have been together two months. The problem is that after we said we loved each other, it&#8217;s like he stopped being romantic anymore. On our one month anniversary, I made him a special dinner. I got him a present and everything, and he ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/142/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 20:33:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I am best friends with a woman, we seem to have everything in common, and I love her. A few months ago we went on vacation and had sex. After the vacation, I talked to her about having a relationship, but she said she only wanted me as a friend. Since then, she has ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/141/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 20:32:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I am 30 and have finally met the perfect man. Almost from the very beginning, I knew he was the &#8220;one&#8221;. I am ready to talk marriage. I know he feels the same way about me but it doesn&#8217;t seem to be going in that direction. We have been together for a month but ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/139/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 20:32:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. Why is it that when you&#8217;re in a relationship many people hit on you, but when you&#8217;re single no one even looks your way? A. The reason people hit on people who are already in relationships is that they don&#8217;t really want one. If they did, they&#8217;d hit on someone who was available. Another ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/138/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 20:32:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I am 45 and have been dating a 53 year old man for two months who has never been married. Since we have been going out, he is always busy doing things. I feel that as a couple we should be able to spend some time together other than the nights he spends sleeping ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/137/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 20:31:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I have been dating this man for only two months. In the beginning he would tell me how great I was, and I felt very lucky to have found him. But now things are getting more settled and comfortable and he doesn&#8217;t say the sweet things anymore. I miss the positive comments, but don&#8217;t ... ]]></description>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I have recently begun Internet dating-again. I met someone who is younger and very cute, and I really enjoyed his company during our dinner date. I kissed him goodnight, but after I left him, I felt uncomfortable. Something just didn&#8217;t seem right, and then I had a terrible nightmare about him-it was one of ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/135/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 20:31:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I left a ten-month relationship in order to check out someone I had been emailing. I felt like in the original relationship we didn&#8217;t have enough in common and that in this new one, I felt like we did. But the new relationship didn&#8217;t go the way I had wanted, so now I am ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/134/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 20:30:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I&#8217;m an older gay man in my late 50s. I always hear how sexy and good looking I am, but all the men I date just want sex. I want friends and a potential long-term relationship. I&#8217;m lonely and not good at starting conversations. I belong to gay clubs. I have tried chat rooms, ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/132/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 20:29:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. Does love have to happen at first sight or can it actually grow out of a friendship? I have only experienced love at first meeting/sight in my life. I have been very lucky. Love has come easily to me until now. I am now wondering if sometimes people actually take time to get to ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/133/</link>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I am in a new relationship, but am a fairly private person. I feel like I have been revealing too much about this relationship to my friends and have betrayed a new found trust. At the same time, I need their support because I haven&#8217;t actually dated much in the past few years. Help! ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/131/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 20:28:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. After years of failed relationships and learning my lessons the hard way (or so I thought) I am being courted by not one, but two men who seem to be really great. They are both from out of town and I met them both online. I&#8217;ve been speaking with them on the phone every ... ]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 20:27:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I am in my late 40s and single for the first time in 20 years. When I was younger, the rule was not to call the guy. I am wondering if the dating rules have changed. If it is OK for a 20-year girl to call a guy is it OK for me? Or ... ]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.ask-lois.com/questions/129/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 20:27:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. Do you think men are just as attracted to a heavy-set woman as they are to a slim in-shape gal? I am 75 pounds overweight and can&#8217;t get a date. Is it because of my weight? A. Absolutely not. The most attractive feature a woman has is her self-confidence. Weight is only an issue ... ]]></description>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I have been dating a guy who is in the health profession. I love going out with him because he is very creative in his dating ideas (places to go and things to do). I work hard on maintaining my health and it is important to me. Strangely, this guy is the unhealthiest man ... ]]></description>
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		<title>Around a month ago I walked into my boyfriend of six months bedroom and found a girl</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 01:51:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. Around a month ago I walked into my boyfriend of six months bedroom and found a girl (completely clothed &#038; his friend) in his bed with him next to her. They were not touching &#038; he swears to me he did not cheat. I believe him but recently I am experiencing severe pangs of ... ]]></description>
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		<title>My husband does quite a bit of drugs recreationally every few weeks or so.</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. My husband does quite a bit of drugs recreationally every few weeks or so. I hate when he does them because of what he becomes. No matter what I do or say I can&#8217;t get him to stop. I don&#8217;t want him driving and I don&#8217;t want to be around him after he does ... ]]></description>
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		<title>It seems like I get more closed off from my relationships as I get older.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 01:46:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. It seems like I get more closed off from my relationships as I get older. I know that part of it is because my life (with two small children) is more hectic. Is this normal and if so, how can I get back to having more fulfilling relationships? A. When you give up your ... ]]></description>
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		<title>I have been dating my boyfriend for about six months.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 01:46:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. [Summarized] I have been dating my boyfriend for about six months. For the first few months everything was great. But about two months ago. everything changed. He has this friend &#8220;Deb&#8221;. Deb is very immature and she ALWAYS has to be the center of attention. My boyfriend and his roommate were really close friends ... ]]></description>
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		<title>I have been with my boyfriend for slightly over one year.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2012 22:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I have been with my boyfriend for slightly over one year. It is the first serious relationship either of us has been in, and we both openly express our love for one another. On the surface, it seems like a very healthy and happy relationship. However, I struggle with not feeling physically attracted to ... ]]></description>
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		<title>My husband and I decided to add some excitement to our sex life.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2012 21:54:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. My husband and I decided to add some excitement to our sex life. We went on line seeking sex partners together. Online is filled with willing people, and those people became a reality. Well, then it happened. We gave it a go. Maybe it works for other couples but we crashed and burned. &#8220;How ... ]]></description>
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		<title>I was with a guy a year ago. He had been separated and ended up going back to his wife.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2012 21:53:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q.  I was with a guy a year ago. He had been separated and ended up going back to his wife. He is now separated again and is traveling around for his work. We live in different states. He has been e-mailing me now telling me he can&#8217;t stop thinking of me and wants to ... ]]></description>
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		<title>I have been dating an absolutely wonderful man for seven months.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2012 21:51:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I have been dating an absolutely wonderful man for seven months. We recently spent several nights together on vacation and had sex for the first time. The sex was really good, but I couldn&#8217;t help but think that it would be great if he lost about 75 pounds. This man is the most brilliant ... ]]></description>
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		<title>I am a newlywed and the marriage is wonderful.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2012 21:48:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. I am a newlywed and the marriage is wonderful. Our sex was phenomenal before we were married! Now I am finding that I have to work really hard to become aroused. Why do you think that is, and what should I do about it? I love my husband and I do not want this ... ]]></description>
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		<title>My boyfriend and I were in a committed relationship.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2012 21:47:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q. My boyfriend and I were in a committed relationship. He moved away and he says he is now in a committed relationship with another lady. He says he loves me, wishes to keep our relationship open, and wants to see me whenever he is in town. I don&#8217;t know what to make of it. ... ]]></description>
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		<title>My husband and I have been together for ten years.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2012 21:46:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q.My husband and I have been together for ten years. We are still very happy in our relationship, but I&#8217;m looking to liven up our sex life. I would like it to be different and more balanced than it is now. What can I do? A. It is not your partner&#8217;s job to make sure ... ]]></description>
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		<title>I want more sex in my relationship with my husband.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2012 21:45:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q.  I want more sex in my relationship with my husband. We have been together for 15 years and it seems like a good night&#8217;s sleep is more important to him than fulfilling my sexual needs. Any suggestions? A.  If the problem is just a good night&#8217;s sleep, you need to become more creative in ... ]]></description>
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		<title>Intuition Classes</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2012 01:32:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Several times a year, Lois offers a series of six 3-hour classes in Austin Texas. Her classes are fun and extremely informative. Lois&#8217; classes focus heavily on how to ask the right question to ensure the right intuitive response. Each class includes a review of prior material and a question period during which time students ... ]]></description>
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		<title>Dating and Relationship Workshop</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2012 01:31:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you really want a relationship? Are you tired of not attracting the “right” one? This workshop is a hard hitting high confront look at relationship needs and desires. In this workshop we will look at past patterns and the different love languages that can be effective in changing how we relate to our partners. ... ]]></description>
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		<title>Women’s Relationship Support Group</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2012 01:31:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This group meets on Monday nights 6:30 &#8211; 9:30. There are four sessions meeting every two weeks. This is for women who are interested in being in a relationship and for women who have one but desire to make productive changes for the betterment of both partners. It is a very high confront group that ... ]]></description>
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		<title>About Lois</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Nov 2012 17:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lois is an Austin Texas intuitive consultant and teacher. Lois started her intuitive work in 1990 by practicing on anyone and everyone she could find. Her professional career began in January of 1994. Soon after, in 1995, she started teaching intuition classes. Lois has a different delivery than most other intuitive consultants in that she assists her clients with processing information rather than just providing a...]]></description>
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		<title>Professional</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Nov 2012 16:56:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is my greatest hope and desire to help as many people as possible. I love teaching and I love doing personal consultations. I hope to reach a wider audience both locally and nationally through my writing and talk radio. I derive great joy from doing individual consultations and relationship counseling with couples. Most importantly, ... ]]></description>
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		<title>Personal</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Nov 2012 16:55:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I plan to continue all of my artistic endeavors. There are many. I have decorated four art cars, which I have over time, driven on a daily basis. The mermaid gate on this page is one of my artistic endeavors and leads back to the area where I do my consultations. My house is a ... ]]></description>
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		<title>Lois Goodman&#8217;s Austin by Spike Gillespie</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Nov 2012 16:54:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[To say Lois Goodman leads a colorful life would be a gross understatement. Regardless of which definition you use for colorful, hers is a world brimming with excitement and vibrancy, from her personality, to her collection of friends, to the bright, multi-colored (inside and out) house in which she lives. A professional intuitive, Lois provides ... ]]></description>
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		<title>TRANSITION</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Oct 2012 19:38:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Don&#8217;t resist your destiny. Don&#8217;t fight your way to it. Tell the universe you are ready and waiting for what is next. Then surrender. Be still and listen. Allow a moment of quiet every day so you can hear. Be ready. Be open. Allow and create. If you meet resistance or experience pain you veered ... ]]></description>
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