 My partner and I are expecting a baby. He is very worried that having this
baby will negatively impact our life. His fear also comes from him having a
less than stellar home life with his family while growing up. He realizes
this isn't rational but can't seem to move beyond his worry despite being
excited about the baby. How can I help him?
 I am not sure that you can help him at all. He needs to get in the present
moment. It is impossible to experience love when fear takes its place as
the primary emotion. The family life you have together with this new baby
doesn't have to be anything like his personal experience in the past. You
and he have the power to create something completely different.
Getting excited about the moment is up to him. If he can't get there on his
own, he probably needs professional help. You can remind him that "this is
this and that was that" and that they are not the same. Other than that,
getting present has to be his journey. He will have to figure out how he is
going to arrive at one of the greatest experiences he will ever have with an
open mind and an open heart. You simply can't do it for him. In the mean
time, you need to not let him effect one moment of your joy and excitement.
You certainly have plenty to be excited about. Congratulations.
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OH LOOK YOU FOUND ME!!!! It’s just like I always say….right day, right time. I’m glad you’re here.
In the following pages, you will find a lot of interesting relationship advice. You will also find information about the intuition class I teach. It is really fun and usually ends up being life-altering for the attendees. If you are having relationship challenges, you might consider the relationship workshop. It’s just one day of your life and it’s guaranteed to provide a level of clarity about relationships that you have never had before. It's almost as much fun as the intuition series and the potential for a fantastic relationship makes it really worthwhile.
Of course the main thing I do is intuitive consulting. People usually get a consultation with someone like me when they are at major cross-roads in their life or when they have so much going on that they end up getting confused and feeling stuck. Too many choices can be overwhelming. Consultations help sort through all of that and provide a timely plan of action.
I have a page in here that explains intuition a little bit more but if you have any questions about my work, please feel free to call me (reasonable working hours please) 512 445-0627. I have been doing intuitive consulting since 1990 and teaching since 1995. I still love doing it. If you decide to see me, I hope you will enjoy it as much as I much as I do. And…no worries, I will never tell you anything you can’t handle.
By the way, I do a bit of art in my spare time. The gate that leads to the area where I work is on this page. I did it with flat glass marbles. Just for fun, we stuck a picture of my most recent art car on this page as well. Enjoy the site. |
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THE ERROR OF OMMISSION
There is one question that I have received over time in many different ways. In the end it is the same question and it will always get the same answer. I would like to answer this question in a general format that applies no matter how the question is asked.
By example, the most recent question I received was from an engaged man. He had an agreement with this fiancé that they would “wait” until they were married. It appears he waited as long as he could but finally one night he broke down and decided to pay for “a happy ending” (manual manipulation). No intercourse or emotional intimacy of any kind. Unfortunately, he also ended up with a hefty dose of guilt topped off by fear around telling his fiancé due to the potential consequences. For him, the consequences included the pain she would experience along with the pain she had the potential of inflicting on him in return. Even worst, there was the potential of losing the relationship all together. Unfortunately by not “telling”, the relationship will probably still end but only after a painful period filled with conflict and misery.
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